Deliverability

Greylisting

Greylisting is a spam defence where a server temporarily rejects mail from an unfamiliar sender and accepts it on the retry. Real mail servers retry; most spam software does not.

For delivery it is harmless — it delays a first message by a few minutes and nothing else. For verification it is a nuisance, because a probe that gets a temporary rejection has learned nothing about whether the mailbox exists.

The correct handling is to treat a temporary rejection as unknown and check again later, rather than recording it as invalid. A verifier that collapses temporary failures into "invalid" quietly deletes a slice of perfectly good addresses from every list it touches.